One Revert Brother To Another: Growin' My Sunnah Beard Changed My Life

In this powerful post, the author shares a personal journey of spiritual and self-growth through embracing the Sunnah Beard. From struggles with self-identity to finding strength and purpose, this post highlights the transformative impact of growing a beard in alignment with the Sunnah. A must-read for those seeking motivation and insight into living authentically and submitting to Allah’s guidance.

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Yusuf Kareem

4/13/20254 min read

One Revert Brother To Another: Growin' My Sunnah Beard Changed My Life
One Revert Brother To Another: Growin' My Sunnah Beard Changed My Life

I ain’t always been like this.

I ain’t always had this beard on my face. I ain’t always cared about what it meant. But when I tell you the Sunnah Beard changed my life—I mean that from the core of my soul.

See, I used to walk different. I used to look for approval in places that were never meant to validate me. The world told me how to dress, how to speak, how to move—and I followed. Not because I was weak. But because I didn’t know there was something better. Something real. Something rooted.

That “something” turned out to be the Sunnah Beard.

The Day I Stopped Cutting

It wasn’t a loud moment. Nobody gave a khutbah that changed everything. It was a quiet night, real quiet. I was just sittin’ with myself. Lookin’ in the mirror. I saw my face, but I ain’t recognize the man. I saw strength, but it was wasted. I saw growth, but it was bein’ shaved off, week after week.

That’s when it hit me—why do I keep cuttin’ off what Allah is lettin’ grow?

Why do I silence my face, when it’s tryin’ to speak?

So I stopped. Cold turkey. Just like that. And that was the beginning of a new chapter.

This Ain’t About Style

Look—I get it. Beards are “cool” now. Every dude with a fade and a lineup wanna grow one. But this ain’t that. The Sunnah Beard ain’t a flex. It ain’t a fashion statement. It ain’t about lookin’ hard or grown or trendy.

The Sunnah Beard is about submission.

It’s about lettin’ your face obey your Lord even when your heart still strugglin’. It’s about takin’ that first step toward the Prophet ﷺ, even when you got a thousand more to go.

And the real ones know—it ain’t always easy. There’s judgment. There’s pressure. People look at you like you a threat, like you extreme, like you changed.

But the truth is—I did change. And the Sunnah Beard was part of that change.

It Grows With You

This beard? It’s been with me through a lot.

I done cried with it. Prayed with it. Felt rejection with it. Felt power with it. Got looked at crazy with it. Got respect for it too.

There were times I wanted to trim it. Times I wanted to fit in. But every time I looked at that blade, somethin’ in me said: “Leave it alone. Let it grow.”

Because the Sunnah Beard ain’t just hair. It’s history. It’s a message.

It tells the world: “I ain’t ashamed of who I am.”

I Used to Seek Validation

Before the Sunnah Beard, I was worried about what people thought.

Worried about what my girl would think. Worried about the job interview. Worried about family. Worried about old friends.

But once I started growin’ the Sunnah Beard, somethin’ flipped.

I stopped carin’ about validation from people who ain’t even prayin’. From people who don’t know what it feel like to stand alone for the sake of Allah. From people who only love you when you match their image.

The Sunnah Beard made me realize: I don’t need their love. I need His.

It's a Daily Battle

Don't get it twisted—this ain’t a fairy tale.

There’s days I wake up and feel outta place. There’s days I wish life was easier. But then I remember—comfort wasn’t promised. Jannah ain’t cheap. And the Sunnah ain’t always convenient.

So I grip tighter.

And it’s not just about the beard—it’s about everything it reminds me of.

It reminds me to pray. To stay humble. To remember death. To lower my gaze. To carry myself like a man of principle, not a man of ego.

The Sunnah Beard became my anchor when I was driftin’. It became my reminder when I was forgettin’. It became my companion when I felt alone.

They Gon’ Judge You Anyway

Let me say this clear: people gon’ judge you no matter what.

You could be out here clean-shaven, dressed sharp, smellin’ good, speakin’ nice—and still get hate.

So you might as well be judged for somethin’ worth it.

Let them say you too religious. Let them call you a “Mullah.” Let them talk.

At the end of the day, the angels writin’. And the Sunnah Beard? It’s on that record. That intention to grow it? That’s on your scale.

So let them laugh. Let them assume. Because you ain’t growin’ your Sunnah Beard for them—you growin’ it for Allah.

My Beard, My Statement

You wanna know who I am? Look at my face.

This Sunnah Beard says I’m Muslim. It says I’m proud. It says I ain’t apologizin’ for my deen. It says I know who I follow. It says I’m tryin’, even if I ain’t perfect.

Some days I fall. Some days I get up. But this beard stays with me.

It ain’t a costume. It ain’t for clout. It’s a covenant.

To the Brothers Thinkin’ About It…

If you ain’t growin’ it yet—start.

Start patchy. Start slow. Start now.

Don’t wait for the perfect time. Don’t wait till your life is sorted. Grow it while you're in the storm. Let it grow while you grow. Let the Sunnah Beard be your reminder that change is real. That growth is possible. That you're movin’ in the right direction, even if the road gets messy.

If you already got it—don’t let go.

Keep it. Own it. Wear it like armor.

And if you ever doubt why you started—look back at the mirror and remember who you used to be. Remember what you were runnin’ from. Remember who you’re runnin’ to.

This Sunnah Beard is more than hair. It’s more than image.

It’s a silent shahada. A flag of submission. A mark of love.

And I wouldn’t trade it for the world.